Dating with DepthNot Swipes
No more swiping: real conversations, real connections.
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How it works
Speak Your Heart: Form a Connection the Way You Were Meant To.
Be Your Unapologetic Self
We've curated a thoughtfully designed onboarding questionnaire, delving deep into your interests and values.
Get Matched Based on Compatibility
After onboarding, you can 'Go Live' and begin searching for your match. Our algorithm handpicks matches with whom you're highly likely to be compatible with.
Reveal the Mystery
Get placed into one of our chatrooms to spark up a conversation without the cameras on. When the time is right, you can enable your video and add an exciting new layer to your journey.
Upcoming Events
Introducing Heart 2 Heart: Live!
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Our Commitment
Built by people tired of swipe culture.
Built by a team tired of swipe culture, we're creating a more intentional way to date—where real connection comes first and your privacy is always protected. You control what you share and who you connect with, no games, no gimmicks.
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Ready for something real?
Beyond the swipe lies something better. Join a space where your story starts with your voice — and where real relationships happen.